Shichida update

It was a challenge for me to bring andrea back to shichida class after more than 3 months. I have decided to let hubby to bring her until she shows improvement in her memory linking. Andrea does not seems interested in shichida activity anymore and always looking at her friends. I do not know why she does not concentrate anymore and would always find it funny when she does not follow instruction. I had showed frustration & anger when she was not paying attention or has done wrongly for her activities. I know i should not do that, but i just do not know how to control myself. Hence, the best solution, let hubby accompany her to class. 

Today, i've bought some activities materials for andrea and also for ben's future use. To help andrea's memory linking. I have also put ben on the waiting list, there are 50+ in the waiting list! What shocking news! How on earth so many parents wants to enroll their baby to baby class. I actually didn't plan to send ben so early, but 50+ in the list, i better queue if not I'm afraid by 1 year old he does not have a place. How kiasu.. haha... anyway, i hope andrea will continue likes her shichida activity. I will play my part & will draw out a time table so that hubby and new maid can help me on home practice. 

Indirect Resource

I always believe, if you want to have bad luck, you can always show your black face if you want black luck to follow you. However, for those with black face 24 hours, those are usually having IR (indirect resource star) appearing in the natal chart & is exposed in the Heavenly Stems. 

Are all these people going thru some major pain where the world is going against them? Well, if they have IR in the chart and is exposed, they THINK the world or people is always against them, because they think too much and their thinking is unconventional. If you see one in your chart & is expose, please control your black face as it will not bring any good to you. 

1. My Maid (has IR in her chart & is exposed). She has showed black face & throw some tantrum telling me she does not want to work anymore. She has difficult time & not so happy time for almost or more than 6 months working with me. I know it and i can see it, but somehow i ignore. She deserved it. She told me the employer she worked for in PH does not like her, and she does not have good employer relationship always, she wonders why. It's because of her "black face"

2. My friend. I saw it but i asked her why it's not happening to you. She told me when she was young she was like that (show black face). She has unconventional thinking too, imagining someone talking to her before she goes to bed. Luck changes when she realized it & improved, even the fortune teller asked if she has changed alot (attitude) for the past. The fortune teller was wondering why she got married. You see, if you don't control it, somethings in your life you will never get it. 

3. My husband. He is another one with IR, exposed but it's in the hour pillar. so it's inside him & it's for the family member to see only. Friends he knows may not notice it but surely i can see it even before we get married, the way he talk to my ILs-everyone. What he doesn't get because he has this black face attitude? I don't know.. maybe love from his family member or even his wife. I feel kinda sick when talking to him sometimes because i always feel a kick in the butt when i do no wrong, or has to tolerate the black face/ rude tone when talking to him. of course, many unfortunate things happen to him because of that. He knows what it is. 

4. Today i went shopping at pavillion, i saw a man looks very much like my FIL. Also has this black face & the tone talking to the wife was somehow not very pleasant too (not scolding but u can sense he has a world on his own). I quickly relate it to my FIL, issit because he has this black face thus he did not get the wealth he wants & did not success because of this. My husband has to pay for his own university tuition fees. Poor hubby.... I just hope, my husband will not end up like his dad. By the way i do not know my FIL birthday, but i'm sure he has IR in his natal chart and exposed too. The face can tell.....

Just in case my husband will turn around and bite me, yes.. my 10 year luck pillar has an IR & is exposed too. I control it & thanks to my husband constantly making me feel sick of him, this even help me further to remind myself . Just like a mirror. 

School progress-Jan update

It's almost month end now. Andrea is still going to school :) I'm glad & despite her tears when we drop her off, she learnt alot of things.

Andrea loves water day, which is on every Wednesday. She looks forward to it & would happily pack her swim suite, water bucket & her beach ball the night before. The good thing i like is, the teachers or auntie there would shower them after their water play. Teacher took a photo of her playing in the pool & stick it into the communication book. I'm sure andrea did enjoy herself!

Andrea gave me a surprise, i caught her singing alone in front of the TV table one day. She is mumbling-singing a song that i have not heard before. I go closer than asked her to sing louder, to my surprise, she sang a song that was taught in school. She taught me how to sing & i sang it with her whenever she is singing that song. She learnt a new malay song too - Rasa Sayang. This one i know, so i sang it with her without troubling her to teach me :)

I found one turtle in her bag yesterday. She happily took it out and wave it in front of me. Telling me that this is her turtle. I know she loves art & craft. So far i've seen she has made - flower, bunny & turtle. Others i think she didn't bring it back.

Andrea start to count with fingers too. I can see her trying to open and close her finger with the help of another hand. hahaha, she still cannot coordinate - open and close fingers with one hand. When she does number 3, she will call out to me "Mummy See... 3".

I'm so proud of andrea that she is learning so much in school. I'm sure she had fun in school & i hope she will stop crying when we drop her early in the morning next month.

3 Months 1 Day old

wow... i have been so busy... no time for blogging.

Ben had 2 injection & 1 dose of rotavirus today. He is a brave boy, only cried a little & did not spit out the rotavirus. Mummy love you so much!

weight = 5.7 KG
Height = 61 cm

Benjamin is very talkative now and likes to smile at you while talking. tried to capture a video but to no avail, ben needs me to look into his eyes in order to talk & smile at me. If he sees I'm not concentrate, he will loose interest, hence no smile & baby talk :(

I've put benjamin on his tummy so that he could practise crawling, he has a strong neck now & will not roll over if put on his tummy. However doctor asked me today if he starts flipping over... ops... Ben has not even tried flipping. Unless i help him to flip over. Need to teach him how to flip....

Tiring

Back to work is even more tiring than taking care of ben alone. It has been a week that i'm back to work and i'm feeling ill today. Andrea pass on the germs to me & she gotten it from her classmate. Fetching andrea to school and back from school is killing me, i thought i can take it, but today my body tells me that i cannot take it anymore. The stress that i have - afraid andrea will cry when im not around, picking her up late, not wanting to eat her lunch & me myself have got not enough of sleep.

Stress can be absorbed by many ppl at different level, but not for a geng metal day master. I'm a very good example. If you give me stress i cannot perform well, if you give me stress i will collapse physically, if you give me stress i will have mental disorder. Thruout my 28 years of life, i have helpful people around me to help me out until this year after i've delivered ben & andrea start going to school. Stress has been killing me. I'm melting.... The big strong axe is melting :(

My new maid is coming after CNY, i hope she can be helpful to me. fingers crossed x

Enjoying Art

I'm heading back to work tomorrow, no more afternoon nap :(

Andrea has been very good girl today & yesterday at school. She is alittle bit sticky when school starts but was OK after tea time. I can take some time off to go shopping after her tea time and back to the school before class ends. She was OK, no crying in between. I hope tomorrow would be the same, so i do not have to worry while i'm at work.

Andrea enjoy her art class, 1st day of school they made the school logo. They took 2 days to finish. Wed & Thurs they make penguin, andrea loves it alot. She brought the penguin back and hang it on our door! So cute.....

Prosperity Star & Three Wonder Noble

I'm grateful that andrea has Prosperity Star & Three Wonder Noble in her chart. However ben has none of the gods & sha that i've learnt, ben will have tougher life than his sister. Need to brush him up from young.

There are 12 prosperity stars, which refers to the day master. If your kid or yourself has this as Day Master, they will have Good Reputation & Academic Achievements. Besides they will have good fortune, luxury & prosperity. They enjoy good food too.
Here are the 12 : Jia Yin, Yi Hai, Yi Chou, Bing Zi, Bing Xu, Ding You, Wu Shen, Ji Wei, Geng Wu, Xin Si, Ren Chen, Kui Mao.

There are 3 sets of Thee Wonder Noble
(1) Heavenly Three Noble - Jia, Wu, Geng
(2) Human Three Noble - ren, Kui, Xin
(3) Earthly Three Noble - Yi, Bing, Ding
If your kid or yourself has these in your chart,3 Heavenly stem sitting side by side & in sequence, they are multi talented, learned and wise, will have nobility and wealth. However, if they are not side by side & in sequence or going thru 10 year luck pillar, they will enjoy 50% of the effect. Hence, must do anything you want during this period. Do not waste it.

First day at School

Overall she behaved very well today despite cried for a little while when she could not get her favourite Hello Kitty sticker from teacher. Andrea was not overly fussy when we were in class, only asking me to sit beside her but after her tea break she could follow teacher to class without wanting me to follow. During tea break and lunch time, she could feed herself, which im very proud of her, can finish the meal or not is another matter. Andrea is able to go toilet herself without help too. The children loo was good, maybe i shall install one in my new house for both of my kids. I'm confident that tomorrow she will be more independant & enjoy school.

Smiles

Ben has been very responsive these few days. He would 'ohh' and 'ahh' when u talk to him and would 'look in to your eyes' when talking to you. I just love the way he is now & love 'chatting' with him.

Bought Ben to Bangsar village yesterday evening to buy some groceries. Andrea has been very naughty lately, she does not want to take her afternoon nap, due to her Bazi that we cannot cane her, we have to use other way to discipline her. We told her if she does not nap, she cannot follow us out, who knows she really do not want to sleep and feels very funny about it. We left her home with the maid. Ben open his eyes when we arrived & only sleep when we are about to reach home. He enjoyed looking outside the windows & looking around in the supermarket. He is very alert & loves exploring. I guess we should not leave him with the maid so often now, he loves shopping too!

Ben's buttock very red today, i do not know what the maid had done to cause that rash. Maid said it's because of his stool, it was harder yesterday. I did not see the stool but i thought breast milk stool should not be hard? Sigh... anyway, will keep an eye from today onwards. Poor baby...

Happy New Year

New Year Day was great. We had our favorite dim sum, lunch at The Loft & dinner at Sushi Zanmai. Andrea was well behaved at dinner time & ben was not fussy during our lunch at Pavillion. It was such a great long holiday, "long" because hubby clearing all his annual leaves, we went out to do shopping most of the time, we bought many things and i feel very satisfying :) Luckily I still have today & tomorrow before Andrea's school starts.

Looking back to year 2009, i have achieved & owned quite a number of things.

(1) delivered a son

(2) Completed Bazi module 4

(3) Attended Feng Shui module 1 & 2

(4) Cartier Watch & iMac

(5) Bought many art supplies for andrea to develop her creativity

(6) Take care of ben on my own without a confinement lady & limited help from mum for 2 months

(7) Attended Shichida Prenatal Class

(8) Scolded my ex-boss because he did not keep his promise for my band promotion

(9) Learn alot from the "Mean" & "Fake" ppl at workplace - surprisingly at ASEAN level only i see more of these.

(10) Able to tolerate my bad temper maid without loosing my temper

All in All, i enjoyed my year 2009 :)