Dire Day

Today is the last day of May and it's a Dire Day according to dong gong. Early in the morning, thunder storm scares benjamin. It's really scary - ben cover his eyes when he sees the lighting outside the window. As when I feel it has stop, i went out to the kitchen, then i heard ben running out of the room with fear and calling for people, i quickly ran and pick him up. 

My Mood is still not good, but i won't let it continue for another day. Dire day in the office also not good, i've sent and say the wrong things - correction all the time. Tired. I hope tomorrow would be a better day. Hubby mentioned that rich people business not easy to do, I'm sure no one will be in super good mood today, hence we shall not look down the importance of good dates. The meanest or the richest man will treat you extremely good when their mood is good - but it will not happen on a dire day.

One colleague just st me, asked if I were asking 1Q10 listing or 1Q11 listing. Haih ... another error for today.

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Dong Gong DS

April sure is a busy month, I've used Dong Gong Date selection since march and it seems quite useful as i can see some positive feedback and outcome. Will continue to do for the following months and hope we can close more deals :) What about myself? I've used the good dates but inevitable that sometimes other party purposely wanted to choose a bad day to discuss with me, hence i need to use a bad day - like today. I meditate and send energy to the person i'm going to talk to and the outcome turn out really well, although i do not know if he is genuine wanted to rent from me or just being nice - overall the discussion was very pleasant and i think he would rent from me if his other partner agrees. This friday he would tell me if he wants to rent, JV or not interested. Keep my fingers crossed. I feel like a sales man today :) 

April for me is a hectic month, destruction for my month pillar - chaos happens in the family (month pillar). True enough, but that's small matter. Not affecting me much and I will not give feelings to it. Signed up for GIS (Global Internet Seminar), i think i only can go 1 or 2 days - such a waste! We are going to stay in Shangrila because my membership expiring end of this month. Which is important you asked me, GIS! but hubby thinks otherwise, sigh, nvmlar, maybe i do not need Internet Seminar knowledge lar. Whatever. I paid RM97 and it's going to burnt! Whatever. Going to Singapore! Yeay - buying manna bear, garrett popcorns, andrea formal clothes for violin performance, massimo dutti working clothes, MOS burger, Marina Bay Sands HOTEL! and animals for the kids :) Too BAD my kids are still SMALL, if not I wanna watch lion king AGAIN! I missed Musical Play badly. especially after i went to KLPAC for disney musical

开工 大吉

No cure for me, i went for JY talk and the date and time given by JY is not suitable for me. So i came back and open up my dong gong book (ask Mr. Dong), 7th Feb is inauspicious, 8th feb is auspicious but it's a horse day and i'm sitting on rat (clash) - no good effect on me, 9th feb is SUPER inauspicious, 10th feb is inauspicious, 11th feb is auspicious but it's a rooster day and I have a rooster in my chart (self punishment) - no good effect on me. WHOLE week no good day for me to start work :( Quite depressing but i do not want to 'feel' it. Go Away! 

Anyway i planned to go back to work on monday which is 7th feb, but universe stop me from going to work and gave me an headache, so i went office today. It's a good day but i will not get any good effect. Sigh ... sometimes you want to have date selection but somehow the timing is not right. Just like this, HOW? life goes on ....... 

Rob Wealth Profile

1. They are charismatic, captivating types who inspire, persuade and motivate people to rally around them and is very effective and personable leaders. They desires togetherness and bring together communities. They will connect with people at an emotional level where they can influence and inspire others to do certain things and take action. They are the one who create opportunities and are off and running to capitalize on it. They are tough, no-nonsense go-getters, strong ambition (don't like to lose), drive to succeed and risk taker in trading. Healthy RW can parlay this strength into wealth attainment. 

2. Manipulative and devious - put other people in place in order for them to get what they want (gain admirers and making acquaintances). RW profiles are adept at putting on masks and facades to behave differently around different people (sometimes cannot manage own changing feelings). Their emotions are meant for external audience, all about external world - put on a show.  However they don't tend to do this consciously as it is more of a subconscious manifestation. They are capable of withholding certain information and facts from others because they have an irrational fear that they will be pushed aside. 

3. Extreme in terms of love and hate. Confuse. Is deeply conflicting on the inside because of many different masks they wear, their selfhood is not in one whole piece, they might not know which piece goes where, and how all the pieces fit in place and fall together. The need to be wanted. The deep desire to be wanted, respected and adored for who they are. They need audience. They will not show that they need love and attention. In fact, they maintain a brazen, confident facade while crying out for love from the inside. Value freedom and hates dependency, but at the same time needs people for love and affection

4. Resilient. Is extremely adaptable to harsh situations, simply altering their game plan and continuing along on their merry way. Quick. They have quick reflexes and are able to pick up things very quickly. They think on their feet and respond fast. Proactive. They go out and make their own opportunities and possess great amounts of drive and initiative. Inspirational. They are very moving and encouraging, they like to speak to people's hearts. Entertaining. Enjoys a good laugh and life of the party. Loyal. Likes to have a group of friends at their side, may put friends ahead of partner/ spouse. 

5. Envious. They are so focused on success, they don't pay as much attention to an internal barometer as much as they do to an external one, even if their paths are entirely different. Covert. they have hidden agenda (pretty harmless) that they don't want others to know of. They never lay it all out on a table. Stubborn. Extravagant. Often troubled by money issues, they can't ever seem to manage it. Argumentative. Stubborn or simply want to be acknowledged that they are right. Smooth-talker. Evasive. Avoiding talk about feelings and problems while in relationships. Insecure. Afraid of losing their friends - audience. 

6. RW profile under pressure. Aggressive. become quite violent or be very belligerent in manner and will not step aside without a loud argument. Sensitive. they often crafted a false sense of self based on illusions of grandeur, if they feel this sense of self is about to be threatened, they can become extremely sensitive and prickly. Ruthless. They can resort to unconventional means to achieve their own goals, possibly at the expense of others. 

Eating God Profile

1. Impractical with their head in the clouds. When unhealthy, all that is good becomes weakness. They become dreamer instead of translating into concrete plans of action - building castle in the air (unrealistic). They do not consider certain matters as priorities, overlook those things because they have trouble differentiating between what they "need to do" and what they "want to do".

2. EG profile likes to read and discover new things, try things at least once. They consider learning as essential part of human growth. Enjoy pleasures of life - joys of food, wine and song is something they love to indulge in with the right company. When unhealthy, they tend to over-indulge (pleasure seeking activities) simply to block out the unhappy or negative aspects of life. Hence becomes addicted to these pleasures as means of staving off the encroaching realities of life.

3. Hidden Nature. (i) Anxious and troubled. The significant one's are fear of not being taken seriously and being misunderstood (ii) Afraid of being bored or stuck. It's important to them that other people perceive them to be endlessly-fascinating, endlessly-occupied busy bees. Is impatient for something more and hate being tied down [commitment-phobic]. (iii) Fake optimism. Feels that sadness is a sign of failure, hence unable to share their true state of mind with others, they compelled to keep their spirits up and put on a bright face for the world - and only they know that this vision of delight is only just an empty shell.

4. Restless. Their thoughts are scattered all over the place, they can appear focused but inside their thoughts are spiraling off in a million different directions. Eccentric. They hate to be dictated to by "should", don't really care what the prevalent customs or notions are or what other people think. Critical and judgmental. They have an inflated set of expectations that they want other people to fulfill, not realizing that they need to re-examine their own expectations.

5. Social. Courteous. They are very cordial and committed to cultivating graciousness, courtesy and respect. They are elegant and understand the need for civilities as a way of getting along. They will not raise their voice at a waiter who got the order wrong, or call them by snapping their fingers. Irresponsible. Unhealthy, If their responsibility weigh heavy, they quick to dispose of these responsibility and take off. They will start looking for ways and methods of escape.

Hurting Officer Profile

HO Profile describe me more accurate than my DW profile, i think close to 98% accurate. I'm sitting on rat - gui water which is pure HO qi. Here's are some facts and areas that i need to improve/ realize.

1. Charismatic.They usually have a certain something - a certain intangible quality - that makes others sort of flock to them. Like a light that attracts the moths. They also have apparent air of untouchability or superiority. Wow! Now i know the reason why i have this power. Previously i thought i'm sitting on water, so water reflects my beauty. lol ... It's my HO star

2. 3As - Ambitious, Arrogant. Aggressive. HO Profile does not sit around waiting to be feted by good luck - they go out there and make their own luck! When unhealthy, they become very arrogant and suffer from delusions of grandeur. Moreover, they may take their healthy ambition a little too far, competitiveness becomes their default mode of being and everything becomes a contest. Wow! My DW profile also likes to compare, and HO is competitive - no wonder i always have this feeling that i cannot loose out and need to be on top of everything! This is a very bad trait - so negative

3. HO profile likes to help others mine for their own ambitions and goals and set forth on a plan to achieve them. Therefore, they enjoy sharing self-development tips, explanations on how to make money, lose weight, develop career skills etc, they are very results-oriented. I NEED TO CHANGE. This makes me very suffer, I always share the good things be it knowledge or product or anything to my family members they 80% shut me off. Well, i don't usually share it with friends around me, unless they ask. I feel terribly tortured by my family members, i shall learn to share only when they ask or show interest.

4. Self-doubting. HO profile have deep-rooted anxieties about their personal value. They often have the irrational fear that they may not be quite "good enough", despite any evidence to the contrary. OK, I really feel im always not good enough, be it knowledge that i already have, being a good mother, daugther, wife or things that i do. There's always this invisible bar of excellence that seems out of reach

5. Highly pressured and volatile. HO profile is under great internal pressure to live up to the high expectations they think others have of them. Although, in truth, these high expectations are of their own creation. I AM my OWN worst enemy :( I have one incidence - dad gave me money when i was on a holiday trip to tokyo, i was so stressed up because i can't find presents for everyone. Hubby ask me why am i so stressed up? cannot find then don't have to buy. At that time, i think dad gave me money, so dad is expecting me to buy something for everyone. Whereas, dad is not expecting anything from me. Volatile - mood is easily affected

Direct Wealth Profile

My sister bought the whole set of JY books recently, hence i borrow a few from her that relates to my own chart. Despite completed all JY modules on bazi, i always found useful information from his books, articles or talks, this is a never ending knowledge and can be seen in so many perspective. 

According to JY bazi profiling, my main profile is Direct Wealth. I don't know how he came about this and the structures in his profiling software also different from what we learnt. Anyway, for classic structure I'm a direct wealth structure person, so I've picked this book. To my horror, 80% of it is very true:

1.DW Profile have no respect for people who shirk responsibility or are simply too lazy to do what they have to do - be it a work assignment or relationship. Well, I feel bad after reading this because i have treated these people badly when i feel they don't do what they have to do - hubby, sisters, parents and colleague. I have to train myself by not giving any feelings if i see people doing this, in any cases, do it myself when it's urgent.

2.DW Profile are actually very idealistic beings - Perfectionist. They place high importance on rules, principles and structures because they always believe that there's a better way to do things. Well, this one I've realized long time ago, hence now i only perfect myself instead of others. However, once in a blue moon I still pick on my husband! Poor boy.

3.DW Profile are Yins, and they don't necessarily always feel comfortable around people because it leads them to constant comparison and dissatisfaction. As such, they tend to spend a lot of time on their own. HOW TRUE! Anyway, after reading the book 'The Power" i have started to change how i feel when inevitably feel that I'm comparing or feel dissatisfied over a small thing/ or sometimes big thing in life. I always remind myself, i have all the good things in life, i just do not know why i have this trait of comparing and dissatisfaction. Now i know who is the culprit! Will use the power of LOVE to overcome this. 

4.Negative side, when it becomes unhealthy (negative) - Opinionated, Irritable, and Sarcastic. I often see myself doing this when feeling stressful. All these while i thought I'm sitting on Hurting Officer that's why i behave like that, now only i know DW also contributed these feelings. I always remind myself - never tap to Negative frequency. Feel Calm, Feel Love

5. Facts - which creates undue pressure on hubby who may not be as principled:

DW profile sacrifice are typically different from everyone else. Most people are willing to make sacrifices for the sake of their friends or relationship, but for DW profile person, it's not just a personal matter - it's a principle. And a principle adheres to a greater good, they don't just make big sacrifices for the sake of people involve, but to adhere to the tradition of meaningful ethics and values. However, it's precisely this trait that makes them responsible, committed, and reliable partners and friends. 

Andrea's Shortcoming

Give me wisdom, tell me what can i do with her shortcoming:

1. Hot Temper - too much fire hence always has fever, she is actually having fever right now. She screams alot and love to own all of her things, never let ben or even her classmates touch it. 

2. Lazy person, lacks drive and needs strong motivation - no yang metal in her chart. She is born to be lazy, MY GOD! No wonder she loves to watch TV all the time. How to cure this?

3. Lack of wisdom - no yin water. 

Give lots of love? I just scream at her because she doesn't want to sleep and keep talking to herself on the bed. I don't know how to control myself, i was very tired and feeling dizzy, after screaming i cannot sleep anymore. 

Indirect Resource

I always believe, if you want to have bad luck, you can always show your black face if you want black luck to follow you. However, for those with black face 24 hours, those are usually having IR (indirect resource star) appearing in the natal chart & is exposed in the Heavenly Stems. 

Are all these people going thru some major pain where the world is going against them? Well, if they have IR in the chart and is exposed, they THINK the world or people is always against them, because they think too much and their thinking is unconventional. If you see one in your chart & is expose, please control your black face as it will not bring any good to you. 

1. My Maid (has IR in her chart & is exposed). She has showed black face & throw some tantrum telling me she does not want to work anymore. She has difficult time & not so happy time for almost or more than 6 months working with me. I know it and i can see it, but somehow i ignore. She deserved it. She told me the employer she worked for in PH does not like her, and she does not have good employer relationship always, she wonders why. It's because of her "black face"

2. My friend. I saw it but i asked her why it's not happening to you. She told me when she was young she was like that (show black face). She has unconventional thinking too, imagining someone talking to her before she goes to bed. Luck changes when she realized it & improved, even the fortune teller asked if she has changed alot (attitude) for the past. The fortune teller was wondering why she got married. You see, if you don't control it, somethings in your life you will never get it. 

3. My husband. He is another one with IR, exposed but it's in the hour pillar. so it's inside him & it's for the family member to see only. Friends he knows may not notice it but surely i can see it even before we get married, the way he talk to my ILs-everyone. What he doesn't get because he has this black face attitude? I don't know.. maybe love from his family member or even his wife. I feel kinda sick when talking to him sometimes because i always feel a kick in the butt when i do no wrong, or has to tolerate the black face/ rude tone when talking to him. of course, many unfortunate things happen to him because of that. He knows what it is. 

4. Today i went shopping at pavillion, i saw a man looks very much like my FIL. Also has this black face & the tone talking to the wife was somehow not very pleasant too (not scolding but u can sense he has a world on his own). I quickly relate it to my FIL, issit because he has this black face thus he did not get the wealth he wants & did not success because of this. My husband has to pay for his own university tuition fees. Poor hubby.... I just hope, my husband will not end up like his dad. By the way i do not know my FIL birthday, but i'm sure he has IR in his natal chart and exposed too. The face can tell.....

Just in case my husband will turn around and bite me, yes.. my 10 year luck pillar has an IR & is exposed too. I control it & thanks to my husband constantly making me feel sick of him, this even help me further to remind myself . Just like a mirror. 

Prosperity Star & Three Wonder Noble

I'm grateful that andrea has Prosperity Star & Three Wonder Noble in her chart. However ben has none of the gods & sha that i've learnt, ben will have tougher life than his sister. Need to brush him up from young.

There are 12 prosperity stars, which refers to the day master. If your kid or yourself has this as Day Master, they will have Good Reputation & Academic Achievements. Besides they will have good fortune, luxury & prosperity. They enjoy good food too.
Here are the 12 : Jia Yin, Yi Hai, Yi Chou, Bing Zi, Bing Xu, Ding You, Wu Shen, Ji Wei, Geng Wu, Xin Si, Ren Chen, Kui Mao.

There are 3 sets of Thee Wonder Noble
(1) Heavenly Three Noble - Jia, Wu, Geng
(2) Human Three Noble - ren, Kui, Xin
(3) Earthly Three Noble - Yi, Bing, Ding
If your kid or yourself has these in your chart,3 Heavenly stem sitting side by side & in sequence, they are multi talented, learned and wise, will have nobility and wealth. However, if they are not side by side & in sequence or going thru 10 year luck pillar, they will enjoy 50% of the effect. Hence, must do anything you want during this period. Do not waste it.

Bazi Module 4

It was a super tiring module for me, i collapsed everyday i reached home. I only had around 4-5 hours of sleep and it's a broken sleep, my boy still wakes up 2-3 hours every night :( Yesterday's graduation dinner ends 9 ish & i reached home around 10 ish. My name on the cert printed wrongly! I was upset because i noticed that my tag was printed wrongly the 1st day and had asked the ppl there to change it but he did not. So i had the cert with my name wrong on it now, waiting for the guy to call when the correct cert is ready.

Overall it was informative, what i need to do now is to practise.

Dear reader, pls send in your birthdate, hour & gender to me if you want a free reading to eowsl@hotmail.com. Tell me what you want to know & also alittle bit about yourself.

Here is a pic of me with JY :)

Bazi Module 3

This is my 1st bazi class that was taught by joey, i would say mian xiang is the best, cos i laugh from the begining till the end of the class. Bazi was a bit more serious but we did had some good laugh too. Overall bazi 3 was good, it gave me a new perspective to interpret charts. For what i have done earlier, i guess i only bring 20% out of the chart only. with the information i've got now, i guess i can get another 40% information out from the chart. another 40%, i will get it once i've completed module 4!

It was really a tiring experience, i had to express milk during lunch time and had to rush back home after class with my engorge breast! The class is from 10am to 6pm, by the time i reach home, i already feel very very exhausted. Not to mention i have to still breastfeed ben at night, feed-burp-sleep-burp(sometimes)-sleep pattern. I did not had time to do revision for that three days, right now i have to read and revise before going to module 4.

1. read thru the notes
2. structure my mind on what to tell the client 1st till the end
3. memorize key points for 10 gods
4. interpret my own chart

Kui You month

September the kui you month, what it has in store for me? kui is my output star, no doubt the studio unit rented out so quickly just 2 weeks and we get our desired tenant, signed on tenant agreement & get our deposit & rental for the unit. The previous tenant wanted to move out immediately, thought we can forfeit the 2 months deposit but he was begging us, out of good deeds, we return the remaining amount - minus cleaning fees & half a month before we rent out to this new tenant.

I have another you in my natal chart, you you is a self punishment destruction. Now i know what i did wrong, Say something that i shouldn't have said to my colleagues & Parents. Should keep my frustration to myself for the remaining month, do not want to slap my own face anymore.

Mercury dates are from 7-29 September, it will affect those people who has snake, rooster & Ox in their bazi chart. They will encounter communication breakdown, equipment failure ... etc. I think for those things i shouldn't say & have said to my colleagues & parents this month is also due to the mercury dates - Communication breakdown!

H1N1 Scare

The increasing death in Malaysia is worrying me, i really do not know what to do to prevent myself 100% from getting infected. Many people now still being an ignorant to H1N1, but i really pray that they could be abit more merciful to the high risk group of people like me.

Let's look at Bazi (year of birth) Satistic of people die from H1N1. These age & info were extracted from The Star Online. as of 6 August 2009.

It seems that earth element is being affected the most :( i have 2 earth in my bazi chart. God please protect me ....

Ren Shen Month

Here comes my output month (eating god), i may be getting some goddie stuff to eat or earning a little bit extras. My rob wealth month just past & indeed i did get rob (not physically), i've spent over RM1K for respiratory mask. I do find it as a necessary because it claim to be better than N95, however after i bought it & read it online after purchase that... No mask can protect you 100% from virus. Ah well, my RM1K spent is not very worth it, but somehow i think it's the best you can get in the market. http://totobobo.com/

my rob wealth month brings me great misfortune, just received a call from fedex KLIA custom that says my package is taxable! They gonna rob around RM200 from me for nothing! checked the fedex system and my item was retained on 31st July 2009! Darn! 

Just hope august will be a great month for me.

Sun Eclipse on 22 Jul 09

As a JY student, I'm surely concern about the astrology & the universe.

As per JY twitter, It is advisable to stay indoor (especially between 8am to 11am) + especially if you have the Chen, Wei, Xu and Chou in your bazi chart or going thru these Luck Pillar. If you are exposed, bad luck will be with you for 6 months to 6 years.

Hubby has only 1 of those animals, Me & Andrea has 2 of each! Arghh.... Maybe i shall work from home or take leave that day.

Too much hassle

Another thing pop up, my maid told me she does not want to renew her contract because she really wants to go home in august. We decided to let her home for holiday after her 2 years contract before the renewal, however due to the recent H1N1 case, i've advised her not to go home and instead go home next year July. 2 days later she told me she must really go home. Anyway, her permit is approved just yesterday, the cost for renewal & medical checkup & what not, who is going to bear! Gosh! Now i need to PAY for the renewal & PAY for a new maid :(

Looking at the month of June, it's a Geng Wu month, Wu clashes with my Zi (spouse palace) in my natal chart. Clashes!! How can things not change in the month of june for me?! Talking about spouse palace, i have been complaining that hubby is not as caring as before & i did not talk to him much in june too, now i know why.

Beside, day pillar also indicating things im handling now. Like all the hassle i mentioned in the last post & my maid issue yesterday. Arghh.. so irritating..

Feng Shui Module 1&2

I've attended Joey Yap's Feng Shui module 1&2 for the past 4 days, the information were overwhelming for me. I've attended it with my fellow Bazi course mates and 80% of them sit in for repeat for Feng Shui. It was because these modules has been upgraded & their previous feng shui lesson was not taught by Joey himself. They can grasp the information faster than i do & could do all activities/ practise that was asked by Joey, me... i take my own sweet time to refer to notes and try my best to do those activities. Most of the time i see how my friend does it.

It was very exhausted for me, being not pass the 1st trimester, i still feel extremely weak. I'm glad that i did not fall sick in between, if not my money will not worth it. As Usual, after a long course, i would need to do revision & memorize those important formulas.

Things to do:
1.read the course notes
2.memorize he tu & luo shu arrangement
3.each ba gua character, yin & yang form, directions etc
That's for this week. Alot Of things....

Saturday Xu Wu

Wu Clashed with my Spouse Pillar Zi, Moreover Zi represent output & Wu represent direct officer. Had argument with husband that will change the situation. Clash is the worst relationship that u want to have, he may not be feeling anything after this, but I'm sure I will feel a change after this. Overall it's inside my chart not his. Good or bad change? I predict bad, Zi - water element, it's my favourite element and it's being clashed away.

Checked Husband chart, this month ding mao - mao clashed away xin in his natal chart. xin is in the spouse palace too, i may be feeling one day of clashed & aftermath but he will be feeling the whole month of clashed. Both has clashed in spouse palace, what a coincidence.

His = 7K clash away HO (spouse palace) - he feels power & authority & will use hurting speech to attack his wife
Her = DO clash away HO (spouse palace) - her husband will win over her hurting speech.
Overall who wins? he wins lah! but he will feel more pain than i am.